Where you've been isn't necessarily where you're going.
Are you one to focus too much on what's happened in the past? I definitely am, and so I am probably the single worst person in the world to preach on this. I have walked through this lesson more times than I can count, and most likely, I will walk through it again a countless more before I really internalize it.
But, what I learn over and over is that focusing on the past only robs us from being able to focus on the present, and in doing so, we miss our future. That's too much to miss.
Sometimes what has come before is so haunting. There is pain and regret, what-could-have-been's and choices you wish you had made. There are words that were spoken, some by you, some by them - and sometimes those words just hang about in the air, a whisper in your ear of what things you can't seem to walk away from. And so I understand when the past seems too heavy to escape.
But, if you can walk out from underneath its weight, and if we can do that together... there is much waiting for us here. There is beauty and sunshine and... just life to be lived! People to meet, experiences to be had, relationships to enjoy.
Don't let your past steal your future. Let it go... and embrace what is here.